If I confirm that someone is a GBV (gender-based violence) victim, my approach to helping them would be sensitive, supportive, and practical. Here’s how I would handle the situation:

1. Ensure Their Immediate Safety: The first priority is to make sure the victim is in a safe environment. If the abuser is nearby or the victim is in danger, I would help them get to a safe place, like a shelter or a trusted friend’s or family member’s home.
2. Offer Emotional Support: I would listen to the victim without judgment, making it clear that the abuse is not their fault. Empathy and validation are key. I would say things like, “I believe you,” and “You deserve to feel safe and respected,” to help them feel supported.
3. Connect Them with Professional Help: I would encourage the victim to seek help from a counsellor or psychologist who specialises in trauma and GBV. I would provide them with contacts for GBV hotlines or local support organisations, like POWA (People Opposing Women Abuse) or the Thuthuzela Care Centres in South Africa.
4. Guide Them on Legal Steps: If they are ready, I would explain their legal rights and help them report the abuse to the police, file for a protection order, or seek legal advice. I would assist with finding a social worker or legal aid to guide them through the process if needed.
5. Follow Up and Offer Continued Support: After taking these steps, I would regularly check in to see how they are doing emotionally and practically. Whether it’s helping them attend counselling sessions or supporting them through legal procedures, ongoing support is crucial.

By being a constant source of support and connecting them to the right resources, I can help them begin the process of recovery and reclaim their sense of security and independence.